Question by : Ladies between the age of 35 -50 would you marry a man like this?
Race: Spanish / Italian mix.
Martial Status: Divorced due to an evolution of incompatibility.
Employed Full-time at 50 – 60k a year. with company benefits and zero travel.
NO bills! Meaning Debt Free
Has family Package: 1 boy and 1 girl under 9 years of age.
Age: Mid 40′s,
Physical condition: Slender, healthy and fit at about 6 feet tall. Excellent oral and body hygiene, Full head of dark brown hair with blended graying, very similar to George Clooney. Facially resembles, a split between Robert Downey Jr. and Tony Danza, and with a smile very similar to Tony Danza. Kinda quirky, but it is what it is! Teeth are real and straight as well.
Vices: None really. Doesn’t smoke or drink. However will drink in moderation in social settings.
Hobbies: Early morning workouts, making love, reading, watching movies, occasional road trips, dining out on weekends and simply enjoy being with kids and family. Basically a home-body and not sure why, but does not care much for watching sports on T.V.!
Personality / character: Clean freak, frugal with money, honest, straight forward, quirky, wears heart on sleeve, enjoys comedy, witty, somewhat sarcastic at times but knows limits.
Parenting style: Tough love type and protective. Very much a disciplinarian type but not without knowing when to be sensitive.
Okay perhaps marrying a guy like this might be too a lot to consider, so then what about dating as well?
And yes he still has a strong sex drive
Best answer:
Answer by Willa
Marry? I’d have to think about it. Marrying is altogether different than dating. He sounds good on paper but who knows what he would be like as a husband.
What do you think? Answer below!
I would never marry a man who had an ex-wife and kids in the picture.
No. I have no interest in being a parent not even a step-parent. As soon as I found out he had children I would not waste his time nor mine on a dead end relationship.
Ok sounds good but where is the baby mother? Because baby mommy dram is not for me I woud give it try lol.
I don’t know, it depends how young he is. Men over their sexual peak can become frustrated..
uh yeah well i dunno i’m guessing i am confused
Perhaps, depending on if we had any chemistry.
With one or two slight alterations (race, children older kind of thing) it’s a pretty good description of the man I am marrying. Anyone who thinks that someone who has shown themselves to be a devoted and loving father is someone to avoid doesn’t know what they are missing, at least you get to know in advance their attitudes to things like that.
I’m sure I would date someone like this until the first time he hit his child. I don’t like that at all. Discipline or not.
Neat freak- as long as he doesn’t push his neatness on me or my choices. I’m tidy and clean but not obsessed. Wouldn’t live with it either.
Frugal is fine as long as FUN isn’t out of the question and he didn’t think he would control my choices.
Other than that- sounds like a great guy who would be fun to get to know.
Nope I couldn’t live with a neat freak and he wouldn’t be able to deal with my chaoticness.
He sounds perfect to me – yes!